You tried. No, I don’t mean you simply tried. You gave your best, you cried yourself to sleep, you hoped for a miracle, you changed yourself, you destroyed your happiness – tried. If you did everything you could, everything that was in your power and it still didn’t pay off I think it’s time to let it go. It might be extremely painful, but sometimes this is the only option. When it’s all said and done, when there are no other solutions, you should have the courage to look in the mirror, sigh and start over – another chapter of your life. I know that it meant a lot to you, I know that what you fought for was considered 100% worth it and I’m not here to say that it wasn’t. I’m just here to say that maybe there is another lesson to learn, maybe there is another path you should walk on and new people to meet. I understand that giving up is scary, that forgetting someone you loved is the most painful thing you could ever do, but there are circumstances in life when you don’t decide. There are moments when your hands are tied and all you can do is sit and wait. Yes, love is beautiful, love is magical and love is worth it, but sometimes love does not solve all the problems in the world. Sometimes no matter how much you love someone they might never want to become their best versions of themselves, they might never see their mistakes and it might never work out between you two.
I’m not the type of girl who gives up, believe me, but I think that life can teach us many lessons and one of them is this– know when to let go in order to be happy, because if you don’t you’ll be miserable. I see the best in others, I see their light even when they are in complete darkness, but I can’t live their life and choose on their behalf. Sometimes, I can only do so much but watch how someone is hurting, how destruction is taking place. Maybe, just maybe what I see as destruction another person sees as an opportunity and it’s all a matter of perspective.
To sum up, know when to let go if you want to be happy no matter how much you care. Truth is, you never truly loose people, they are always there with you, in a special place called your heart.
Lots of love,
Queen of Hearts